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04/11/2016 By Isla Baliszewska

We all know that this is the rule most of us live upside down – instead of getting 80% of results for our 20% of effort, we generally expend 80% of our time getting 20% of what we want.  Derived from the Pareto Principle where Vilfredo Pareto noted at the beginning of the 20th century that 20% of the population received 80% of income in Italy, this translates in number terms to meaning 80% of your outcomes come from 20% of your inputs.

The Pareto Principle An interesting study carried out at the Institute of Psychiatry for Hewlett Packard in 2005 found that productivity was impaired by excessive checking of emails – employees distracted by emails and phone calls suffered a fall in IQ that doubled that found in marijuana smokers. This doesn’t seem like a productive use of time so a tip – set your email checking to once every 2 hours so you maintain focus on the tasks that make that 20% really productive.

If we think about this in terms of give and take, we want to give 20% and take 80%.  This sounds a bit selfish really.  So let’s turn it around for a minute.  If you’re taking 80% you need to get someone to give it to you.  They need to be seeing the value of giving it to you.  So spreading the value is a good start.

An example in business terms; at Smart Coaching & Training we produce a great many resources for our customers.  We will give these to you, and you, and you, and you…….. We will then receive from one or two of ‘you’ enough interest in what we do to start having a conversation about doing business together.

But!  It is not that easy.  Our resources have to be worthwhile, useful, insightful, valuable, compelling, so that you and you and you and you…. will WANT to have them.  That requires us to be thoughtful and creative about what we put in to our resources.  We need to make those 20% inputs work for us.

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How does that work for leaders?  How do leaders implement an effective 80/20 rule?

Here are some tips:

Focus on the activities that give you the best outcomes. 80% of your time should be spent on the important stuff, not the panic things or the diverting things or the stuff that someone else could do better.  Determine your priorities, delegate appropriately and define your leadership focus.

Spend 80% of your time on gathering the information you need and 20% of the time in making the decision. (Most good decisions don’t need to be 100% proof in terms of data collection – there is inevitably going to be the element of ‘unknown’ and ‘instinct’).

Listen for 80% of the time. Listening gets you the information and knowledge you need to take the right actions.  Keep the talking to 20%, learn to be concise, authoritative and commanding.

 The thing to remember about the 80/20 rule and the Pareto Principle is its value in reminding us that we truly need to focus on the 20% that will make the difference.

Next time you have a leadership challenge, try a Pareto Chart.  Don’t know how and want some help?  Get in touch with us and we’ll give you a hand!

https://www.smartcoachingtraining.com/1594-2

Filed Under: Decisions, leadership

28/09/2016 By Isla Baliszewska

Raising the Bar

Raising the Bar

Raising the bar – getting things into perspective for success

Discover how your perspective works: how it can help or hinder you. Discover how the lens through which you habitually see the world you inhabit helps or hinders you.

Take a few moments to reflect on the following

1. What has 2016 been like so far you?

2. How does it compare to other years?

3. In what ways has 2016: astonished you; fallen short of your expectations; shocked you; delivered more than you had imagined; seemed to be quite mundane; made you laugh; brought to the surface your worst fears; tickled you pink; highlighted your reasons why and why not; called forth your excellence.

4. What might you have missed or not noticed about 2016 that needs attention or change? How could you use your experience gained so far in 2016 to inform how you manage the last quarter of 2016?

This information simply captures perspectives which are one way to look at an issue or situation. You can choose to try on other perspectives which give more understanding or information. Powerful questions which are not always comfortable bring clarity and focus.

Hartwig HKD - Fly - Fly - Fly How we look at things makes a difference. We tend to take a stand: we tend to argue strongly as to whether a perspective is true or false. For example ‘blondes have more fun’, ‘real men don’t cry’ ‘it always rains on Bank Holidays’ … true or false? Actually it doesn’t really matter. What matters is that if you take it on as a belief or a way of looking at situations or issues, things are coloured in a certain way. Each perspective is simply a different way of looking at the same data. The facts or issue or situation remain essentially the same no matter which perspective we are in. The emotional charge which comes with our way of looking at the facts or issue or situation will have enormous impact.

When we can expand the range of ways from which we can look at a situation – a universe of possibilities opens up which could also be true or not. Too often we take historical experience and make it into ‘the way I am’ or ‘the way IT is’ whatever the situation. It is as if we were powerless to have it any other way. We forget that we have choice. We forget that we can create a different reality.

Facts remain the same but everyone’s perspective is different. When we see how understanding perspective can improve our communication skills, we choose powerful ones to drive our work and home lives.

Here are some of possible perspectives around raising the bar – what might yours be?

…Raising the bar gives me more room to manoeuvreIt stretches me beyond my limits

…I’m happy where I am

…This bar is not high enough

…Even thinking about being asked to raise my bar scares me

…Even thinking about being asked to raise my bar excites me

…Where’s the challenge ‘cos I’m ready to go

…Whatever … this is too easy … head down is the best option

…It’s hopeless. I’m just not good at selling myself …You have to sacrifice yourself for the good of the team’s bar

…To be successful you have committed to raising the bar.

Absolute statements are just one way of looking at a situation. An automatic response indicates a perspective we default to.

Time to be curious. Time to wake up, pay attention, look closely at that part of your life. Good questions to ask are: “What does it get you? What’s the payoff? What’s the cost?  What are you saying yes to? What are you saying no to?” Explore other possible perspectives, weigh them up, try them on, discover how they feel, what do they tell you? The idea is to challenge your perspective making sure it supports you in what you want to achieve.

If you are struggling with perspectives why not try this useful tip?

Take a piece of A4 paper. Draw a large circle with segments like a pie. Write the issue/question/situation in the middle.

Where is the perspective you are in currently?

Label that segment and other perspectives … opposites … unreasonable ones … absolutely won’t go there ones … fairy tale ones … the one you really like and so on in the other segments. Consider the issue / question / situation from each of the different perspectives. (If you get stuck remember to change your perspective and move somewhere, anywhere so that you can look at it differently.)

When at work or at home stand shoulder to shoulder with someone/sit in their chair or walk somewhere, anywhere just to gain a different viewpoint. Try asking someone else what their perspective would be and try that on to see how it fits.

What will be your ‘perspective for success’ for the last quarter of 2016 that will absolutely make 2016 a fabulous year for you? How will anyone know? What will be the evidence? What will people notice that’s different? How will you make yourself accountable? Action is a top tip. Be practical is another.

Challenge yourself to set 3 goals with ‘by when’ attached. Use the SMART approach to goals setting – specific + measurable+ achievable + realistic + timed. Add on the magic ‘IES’ factor – Interesting, Exciting and Special. Next time you’re setting goals buy a tube of Smarties to remind you to raise your bar and explore those other perspectives!

Halina Jaroszewska

September 2016

 

Filed Under: Decisions, Mindset, Personal Development

12/09/2016 By Isla Baliszewska

New Signature Corporate Training

New Signature Corporate Training

Signature Corporate Training

Here is a great opportunity to combine a trip to an exotic location with some valuable learning – join David Rigby and Randa Shanableh in Casablanca from 26th – 30th September for a trio of courses delivered in English and Arabic.

 

And….get a Free Trip to Ali Ben al Falah Horse Display in Marrakech in the evening on 28th September.

 

Choose from the following courses:

1.   Building a Personal Brand using C-me Colour Profiling and LinkedIn

LinkedIn is the most used and most successful digital professional network in the world. Used properly it can increase your social standing and worth, promote individuals and organisations, and create the right positioning for promotion, the next post and additional business. LinkedIn is a fundamental component of promoting your personal brand. But what is the point of having a great LinkedIn profile if it is fundamentally untrue? You will sooner or later get found out and discredited.

Everyone has a personal brand whether they like it or not. So why not have the best personal brand you can have? A personal brand which reflects the truth and your integrity?  That integrity comes from understanding who you are, both how you think of yourself and how others think of you, and modifying your very being to identify how you want to be, and how you want mutual communication to be and making that happen.  A truly Personal Brand which can be managed on LinkedIn to get the results you want.

C-Me Colour Profiling is an internationally recognised tool and approach to understanding self and how you relate to others, providing interpretation and guidance about how you are, your good points and ways of improving.

Each delegate will receive their own personal C-Me Colour Profile to help them understand themselves, build better communications and achieve their goals.

2.   Manager as Coach Overview

The value of mentoring and coaching to support individuals in developing their true potential is increasingly recognised.   But what is it and how do you do it?  This course starts by covering what mentoring and coaching is, and what it is not.  And then covers in detail how to do it properly, using the GROW method.  You will also gain an understanding of enterprise mentoring and life and executive coaching.  The course will enable managers and individuals to learn how to be successful mentors and coaches whether as an external coach or mentor or from within the organisation.  Many of the skills concern relationship development which is integral in any management role as well as in everyday life.

3.   Emotional Intelligence

The value of mentoring and coaching to support individuals in developing their true potential is increasingly recognised.   But what is it and how do you do it?  This course starts by covering what mentoring and coaching is, and what it is not.  And then covers in detail how to do it using the GROW method.  You will also gain an understanding of enterprise mentoring and life and executive coaching.  The course will enable managers and individuals to learn how to be successful mentors and coaches whether as an external mentor or mentoring within an organisation.  Many of the skills concern relationship development which is integral in any management role as well as in everyday life.

For more details contact [email protected] 

 

Filed Under: coaching, Emotional Intelligence, Mindset, People Development

01/09/2016 By Isla Baliszewska

Focus and Planning the Olympic Way

Matt Whitlock wins GoldIn an interview with Matt Whitlock on the BBC following the Olympic Games in Rio, Sarah Montague congratulated him on winning two individual gold medals and a bronze medal for the team, and that his first gold medal was the first ever Team GB gold medal for gymnastics.

She asked him some interesting questions: ‘Did you ever dare to dream before Rio ….. ? After winning the first how did you handle yourself? What did you tell yourself?”

Matt’s replies included: “It was about sticking to the plan. We had a job to do. That’s what we kept to. It was to stick to what we were doing. Focus on preparing for one more routine…”

Focus and planning – two crucial elements of achievement.  Studies show that focus is essential to goal achievement. Focus is the ability to direct your attention completely to a specific task or activity.   “Being able to control it (focus) gives you a lot of power, because you know you don’t have to focus on a negative emotion.”

It is relatively easy to focus on something that is going to happen in the short term, but not so easy when you are targeting long term goals.  This is partly because we lose sight of something that does not happen quickly, our forward vision becomes fuzzy and distracted.

The ironic thing to mention about focus is that it can be distracting – as Daniel Kahneman says “Intense focusing on a task can make people effectively blind “. Daniel Simon’s and Christopher Chabris’s brilliant Invisible Gorilla video demonstrates this beautifully.  (Follow the link in our newsletter to watch it).  What you focus on can make you oblivious to other things that are happening around you, and that can be a good thing.

Winning at the OlympicsThe trick is to think carefully and plan what you are going to focus on.  The GB swimming team’s plan, guided by Bill Furniss and sports psychologist Bill Beswick, was that “mediocrity was unacceptable” and that the team would do things the “British way”. With careful planning and by setting high standards and benchmarks and aiming for toughness and resilience Furniss drove his team forward to achieve fabulous results.

With firm planning, clear objectives and proper focus, a lot can be achieved.  So for some tips to realise your ambitions read on:

Do some serious Visioning – “One of the main techniques I used was focusing on the goal and visualising myself competing in the race before the race started “ – Michael Johnson, Olympic gold medallist sprinter.

Be an ACE Goal Setter. If you need help we can guide you – get in touch with us on [email protected].

Minimise multi-tasking – What you are actually doing is using up energy flipping rapidly between tasks. Set aside the other tasks, allocating specific time for them later, allowing you to concentrate your attention where you want it to be.

Keep it simple – don’t overthink. As you become more competent, the individual components of your competence become automatic. Daniel Kahneman again – “As you become skilled in a task, its demand for energy diminishes”; now is the time to hone that skill and engage the added value.

Set aside time to address concerns – be aware of your concerns and allocate time to deal with them.

Enjoy! – Plan to enjoy your achievements and acknowledge your successes as they appear.

 

Isla Baliszewska

 

 

Filed Under: Mindset, Motivation, Personal Development

08/08/2016 By Isla Baliszewska

Can you see the Glass Full of Opportunities?

Can you see the Glass Full of Opportunities?

Glass Half Full

The old question of whether the glass is half full or half empty is simple – the glass is always full.  Air exists, it is a combination of gases, so even with no water in the glass, it is always full.  The glass is full of opportunities.

How is your emotional perspective on news?  Do you tend to see things from a pessimistic or an optimistic viewpoint?  First off, there is no right way for everyone to emotionally experience the same things.  But some of us will tend towards seeing opportunities.

There are countless examples of businesses making huge gaffs or having serious setbacks that they then turn around to their advantage.  It took GoCompare ages to realise how much their moustachioed opera singer annoyed people, yet when they did they used it to up their PR by killing him off, blowing him up and generally doing away with him in spectacular fashion, thereby fitting with what their customers wanted.

Trunki had a business threatening situation when one of their manufacturers fitted dodgy locks that came off and were a potential hazard.  They turned the problem into an asset by using humour messaging to convince irate customers to fit the new catches themselves.

Brexit happened, Donald Trump may be the next President of the USA, Rio has managed to host the Olympics….but what happens next?  The UK could talk itself into a depression, Mr Trump might bring all kinds of unimagined and unpleasant surprises, and Brazil might abandon all of its pre-Olympic pledges.

Innovation BUT…difficult times always lead to something better, there is always an opportunity to make something positive out of a negative (well, in most cases); we just have to

  • have the right attitude
  • be curious and look at what opportunities might be waiting to be uncovered
  • think innovatively; take a different perspective and see what comes to light.

 

It is the unexpected that often happens. Adam Peaty just won a gold medal for swimming, but as a child he didn’t like water, however that didn’t stop him pursuing opportunities to win.

To enable you to be curious and innovative remember the following:

  • Look for perfection in the situation – what can you learn right now?
  • Take full responsibility for the situation that you are in – what are you missing or not seeing? What are the powerful questions to ask to increase / deepen / make sense of your understanding? How might you have contributed to what occurred?
  • Be clear about your desires / intentions and focus on them – go back to basics … check in with your values … how in alignment with them are you?
  • Look for signs of life / momentum and be grateful
  • Be loving, respectful and honouring of all others – colleagues, clients, customers, competitors especially when you both are at odds with your thinking and goals
  • Focus on your environment – how can you clean up your act in all senses?
  • Give yourself credit for amazing courage!

 

Isla Baliszewska and Halina Jaroszewska – 2016

 

Filed Under: Enterprise & innovation, Mindset, Motivation

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